I receive a loving note/text/email for no special reason from my loved one.

my partner and I hug.

I can spend alone time with my partner - just the two of us.

my partner does something practical to help me out.

my partner gives me a little gift as a token of our love for each other.

I get to spend uninterrupted leisure time with my partner.

my partner unexpectedly does something for me like filling my car or doing the laundry.

my partner and I touch.

my partner puts their arm around me when we’re in public.

my partner surprises me with a gift.

I’m around my partner, even if we’re not really doing anything.

I hold hands with my partner.

my partner gives me a gift.

I hear “I love you” from my partner.

I sit close to my partner.

I am complimented by my loved one for no apparent reason.

I get the chance to just “hang out” with my partner.

I unexpectedly get small gifts from my partner.

I hear my partner tell me, “I’m proud of you.”

my partner helps me with a task.

I get to do things with my partner.

I hear supportive words from my partner.

my partner does things for me instead of just talking about doing nice things.

I feel connected to my partner through a hug.

I hear praise from my partner.

my partner gives me something that shows they were really thinking about me.

I’m able to just be around my partner.

I get a back rub or massage from my partner.

my partner reacts positively to something I’ve accomplished.

my partner does something for me that I know they don’t particularly enjoy.

my partner and I kiss frequently.

I sense my partner is showing interest in the things I care about.

my partner works on special projects with me that I have to complete.

my partner gives me an exciting gift.

I’m complimented by my partner on my appearance.

my partner takes the time to listen to me and really understand my feelings.

my partner and I share non-sexual touch in public.

my partner offers to run errands for me.

my partner does a bit more than their normal share of the responsibilities we share (around the house, work-related, etc).

I get a gift that I know my partner put thought into choosing.

my partner doesn’t check their phone while we’re talking.

my partner goes out of their way to do something that relieves pressure on me.

I can look forward to a holiday because of a gift I anticipate receiving.

I hear the words, “I appreciate you” from my partner.

my partner brings me a little gift after they've been traveling without me.

my partner takes care of something I’m responsible to do but I feel too stressed to do at the time.

my partner doesn’t interrupt me while I’m talking.

gift giving is an important part of our relationship.

my partner helps me out when they know I’m already tired.

I get to go somewhere while spending time with my partner.

my partner and I are physically intimate.

my partner gives me a little gift that they picked up in the course of their normal day.

my partner says something encouraging to me.

I get to spend time in a shared activity or hobby with my partner.

my partner surprises me with a small token of their appreciation.

my partner and I touch a lot during the normal course of the day.

my partner helps me out - especially if I know they’re already busy.

I hear my partner specifically tell me, “I appreciate you.”

my partner and I embrace after we’ve been apart for a while.

I hear my partner say how much I mean to them.

someone I love sends me a loving note/text/email for no special reason.

I hug someone I love.

I can spend alone time with someone I love - just us.

someone I love does something practical to help me out.

someone I love gives me a little gift as a token of our love of concern for each other.

I get to spend uninterrupted leisure time with those I love.

someone I love does something unexpected for me to help me with a project.

I can share an innocent touch with someone I love.

someone I love puts their arm around me in public.

someone I love surprises me with a gift.

I’m around someone I love, even if we’re not really doing anything.

I can be comfortable holding hands, high-fiving, or putting my arm around someone I love.

I receive a gift from someone I love.

I hear from someone I love that they love me.

I sit close to someone I love.

I am complimented by someone I love for no apparent reason.

I get the chance to just “hang out” with someone I love.

I unexpectedly get small gifts from someone I love.

I hear someone I love tell me, “I’m proud of you.”

someone I love helps me with a task.

I get to do things with someone I love.

I hear supportive words from someone I love.

someone I love does things for me instead of just talking about doing nice things.

I feel connected to someone I love through a hug.

I hear praise from someone I love.

someone I love gives me something that shows they were really thinking about me.

I’m able to just be around someone I love.

I get a back rub from someone I love.

someone I love reacts positively to something I’ve accomplished.

someone I love does something for me that I know they don’t particularly enjoy.

I’m able to be in close physical proximity to someone I love.

I sense someone I love showing interest in the things I care about.

someone I love works on special projects with me that I have to complete.

someone I love gives me an exciting gift.

I’m complimented by someone I love on my appearance.

someone I love takes the time to listen to me and really understand my feelings.

I can share a meaningful touch in public with someone I love.

someone I love offers to run errands for me.

someone I love does something special for me to help me out.

I get a gift that someone I love put thought into choosing.

someone I love doesn’t check their phone while we’re talking with each other.

someone I love goes out of their way to do something that relieves pressure on me.

I can look forward to a holiday because I’ll probably get a gift from someone I love.

I hear the words, “I appreciate you” from someone I love.

someone I love and haven’t seen in a while thinks enough of me to give me a little gift.

someone I love takes care of something I’m responsible to do but I feel too stressed to do at the time.

someone I love doesn’t interrupt me while I’m talking.

gift giving is an important part of the relationship with someone I love.

someone I love helps me out when they know I’m already tired.

I get to go somewhere while spending time with someone I love.

someone I love touches my arm or shoulder to show their care or concern.

someone I love gives me a little gift that they picked up in the course of their normal day.

someone I love says something encouraging to me.

I get to spend time in a shared activity or hobby with someone I love.

someone I love surprises me with a small token of their appreciation.

I’m touching someone I love frequently to express our friendship.

someone I love helps me out - especially if I know they’re already busy.

I hear someone I love tell me that they appreciate me.

I get a hug from someone whom I haven’t seen in a while.

I hear someone I love tell me how much I mean to him/her.

I like to spend one-on-one time with people.

I feel loved when someone gives practical help to me.

I like it when people give me gifts.

I really enjoy hanging out with people close to me.

I feel loved when someone I’m close to puts an arm around me.

I feel loved when I receive a gift from someone I’m close to.

Gifts are symbols of love that are important to me.

I feel loved when people affirm me.

I like to spend time with friends and family.

I like to receive little gifts from friends and family.

Words of acceptance mean a lot to me.

I know someone loves me when he or she helps me.

I like to receive affirming notes and texts.

I like to be hugged.

I like being with and doing activities with friends and family.

I like it when kind words are spoken to me.

What someone does affects me more than what he or she says.

Hugs make me feel connected and valued.

I value praise and avoid criticism.

Several small gifts mean more to me than one large gift.

I feel close to someone when we are talking or doing something together.

I feel closer to friends or family when they touch me often.

I appreciate when people compliment my achievements.

I know people love me when they do things for me that they don’t enjoy doing.

I like when my friends and family greet me with a hug.

I like it when people listen to me and show genuine interest in what I’m saying.

I feel loved when friends and family help me with jobs or projects.

I really enjoy receiving gifts from friends and family.

I enjoy when people compliment my appearance.

I feel loved when people take time to understand my feelings.

I feel secure when someone close to me is touching me.

Acts of service make me feel loved.

I appreciate the many little things that people do for me.

I value gifts that people make for me.

I really enjoy the experience of one-on-one, undivided attention.

I really enjoy it when someone does some act of service for me.

I feel loved when people touch me.

I feel loved when people do things to help me.

For my birthday, I feel loved when I receive a gift.

For my birthday, I feel loved when someone speaks meaningful words to me.

I know someone is thinking of me when he or she gives me a gift.

I feel loved when someone helps me with my chores.

I like to go places with people I’m close to.

When I like someone, I make contact with the person (hug, shove, high five, etc.).

I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me.

I appreciate it when someone remembers special days with a gift.

I like knowing that people are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks.

I enjoy full-day adventures or trips with someone close to me.

Getting a kiss from a parent or older relative makes me feel loved.

Receiving a gift for no special reason from a parent or older relative makes me feel loved.

I like to be told that I’m appreciated.

I like for people to look at me when we’re talking.

I like to sit close to people I enjoy being with.

I appreciate when someone tells me how attractive I am.

Gifts from people I’m close to are always special to me.

I feel good when someone I’m close to touches me.

I feel loved when someone enthusiastically does some task I’ve requested.

I feel loved when I’m told how much I’m appreciated.

I need to be touched every day.

I need words of affirmation every day.

Give me a hug!

You are terrific!

I've got a special birthday present for you!

I'll help you with your project.

Let's go to a movie.

Give me a high-five!

You are so smart!

Have you made your Christmas list?

Would you help me cook dinner?

I like going to fun places with you!

Give me a kiss!

You are #1!

I've got a surprise for you.

We can make something really cool.

Let's watch TV together!

Tag, you're it!

You did a great job!

You've earned a special surprise!

You can invite your friends.

Let's go to your favorite restaurant.

I'm going to give you a big hug!

You are an awesome kid!

I made your favorite food.

I checked your homework, and it looks great!

You are fun to hang out with!

I'll race you!

Wow! You did it!

Check under your bed for a special present!

I cleaned up your room for you.

Let's play a game together.

Would you like for me to scratch your back?

You can do it! Don't give up!

What would you like for your birthday?

We can pick up your friend on the way to the movie.

I always like doing stuff with you.

You are so huggable!

How did you know how to do that? You are brilliant!

I can't wait to give you your present!

Don't worry! I'll pick you up on time!

Let's spend the day doing whatever you want to do!