Questions for Gary

As you can imagine, Dr. Chapman is extremely busy, and while he would love to be able to answer individual questions, he is unable to do so. However, here are some alternative resources:

  • Each month Gary hosts a Q&A edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. If you have a question you would like to submit to be considered for the show, we would be glad to hear from you. Call (866) 424-GARY.

  • If you are in further need of counseling, please speak with your church pastor about who in your area can provide you with counseling. Or, visit the website for the American Association of Christian Counselors to learn about Christian counselors in your area. Prefer a broader criteria? Explore

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If you are requesting counseling or relationship advice, please see the Questions for Gary section above for your options. Unfortunately, we will not be able to respond to these types of questions from this form.